Women scream and men run away: When it comes to arguing with your partner, there’s a lot of learning to be done
A PARSHIP study shows that women tend to react more emotionally than men, while men tend to withdraw from relationship strife. 41% of Parship members surveyed, admit that, when they argue with their partner, they can easily let their emotions run away with them. When there is strife in a relationship, strong emotional reactions are more frequent among women than men (45% vs 36%) according to the findings of a representative survey of c.1000 people between 18 and 65, conducted by PARSHIP (uk.parship.com), the leading online dating agency across Europe. Offended or overcome with rage.
The survey also shows that, among people who react emotionally in the event of conflict, the nature of the emotional outburst differs widely: 40% rapidly take offence and stop speaking to their partner; around a third give vent to their anger and labour their point until their partner gives in, and around one in five withdraw from the argument, leaving the room or the house. Strikingly, men attempt significantly more frequently than women to withdraw from the argument and flee the situation, while women have a greater tendency to give vent to their anger.
“Insufficient skill in handling conflict is often the trigger for the failure of a relationship,” explains psychologist Markus Ernst, PARSHIP relationship expert. “For instance, gender-driven differences in communication style can easily lead to misunderstandings or even to the couple hurting each other. Women and men stand to learn something from each other in these situations as they work together to establish a constructive attitude to conflict in their relationship.” .
The independent online survey took place in January 2012.
Troubled actress Lindsay Lohan has hit the headlines again, this time it’s the speculation that the 25-year-old has had some drastic cosmetic procedures on her face, leaving her barely recognisable.
Lohan, 25, stepped out in New York City with what looked like plumped-up cheeks and lips. cosmetic surgeons have said that if it is a cosmetic procedure,is likely to be as a result of having facial fillers. This is not the first speculation of Lindsayundergoing cosmetic procedures, in the past we have seen her breast size increased dramatically, with people assuming she had undergone an augmentation, and in recent years her lips have been looking a little fuller, suggesting that she may have had fillers before.
The change in Lohan’s face has caused a media storm, and it was reported that, because of the transformation Lindsay actually look older than her 25 years, paparazzi had mistaken 67-year-old 80’s pop icon Debbie Harry for Lindsay whilst they were staying in the same hotel.
Lohan has not commented on her new appearance, so we can only speculate as to what has caused it, but there is no mistaking that there is a change. Lindsay stepped out earlier today, and was sporting a new red-head look, going back to her original almost natural hair colour, after being blonde in the recent past.
British-Albanian Singer Rita Ora is making history with her debut music track Hot Right Now featuring DJ Fresh
Rita Ora has exploded on the music scene with so gusto, back in December 2011 when she released her single ‘Hot Right Now’ featuring DJ Fresh, on YouTube,.
The video has had over 10,000,000 views, and was inevitably released for download on iTunes On February 12th 2012
The track went to the top, hitting number 1 chart position here in the UK, making it the first ever song of the Drum & Base genre to have reached number 1 in the UK.
Rita Ora is recording her album, and is working with huge names, such as WillI.Am, Drake The-Dream and Stargate.
New Movie Payback Season will be released in cinemas across the country this week, starring a selection of British actors, Bafta award-winning actor Adam Deacon, Nichola Burley, Leo Gregory, David Ajala, Anna Popplewell and Arnold Oceng amongst them.
Arnold Oceng and Adam Deacon, are reunited with this project after working together before on other projects including the much acclaimed movies Kidulthood, and Adulthood.
Arnold Oceng
Arnold Oceng has been named as ‘one to watch’ for 2012 by Young Voices magazine, his career is going from strength to strength, both in acting and as his music alter ego ‘Snakeyman‘. We caught up with Arnold for a chat. He tells us whats it’s like reuniting with his former co-star, about his big plans for the future, and what it means to him to be considered a role model, to young british film lovers.
Hi Arnold, we are looking forward to the release of your new movie Payback Season, (Released Friday March-9th 2012) can you tell our readers a little bit, what the film is about?
Payback season is about one person’s success and how his background comes back to haunt him.
It looks like it was a fun movie to do, what was it like on set with Adam Deacon, David Ajala, and co?
Well as I’m sure your aware, me and Adam have been on many sets together so that was kinda natural. But yeh to be on set with David and Ike for the first time was cool. There’s a lot of waiting round, so a lot of the time was spent doing what boys do… Ideal job eh!
Last year you were nominated for the Screen Nation Awards ‘young rising star’, how does it feel to have your talents recognised and appreciated?
Very nice actually, as a young black actor in the UK, there aren’t that many platforms for your talent to be recognised, so it’s also appreciated! Since then I’ve been in quite a few things, so hopefully it won’t be the last time and then I can go even further and represent UK talent.
You had an amazing 2011 with some great roles, in films like Top Boy and Demons never Die, how did those films, develop you as an actor?
WOW, that’s a good question! Demons was more of a cameo for me as I knew the producers very well, but to be involved directly with Idris Elba through the project definitely opened my eyes. Playing ‘money man Fem’ in Top Boy was wicked, again it was a whole new team to be a part of and the whole nation got to see me play a new type of character. That accent still gets commented on now!
At Sataloma News we are always searching for good role models for the youth in the uk, we think you are one of those role models, how does it feel knowing that young Britain is looking up to you?
Just humbling really, as an actor you just try to be the best you can on-screen. But that’s just my job. To be recognised as a role model isn’t something I take for granted! I’m glad you feel young Britain is looking up to me as we all know there is a lot of bad things going on that they could be focussing on.
What advice would you give the kids today, who are looking to chase their dreams, just like you have?
To get involved, with all the social networks and government-funded projects that are around us which has been the catalyst for so much creativity and achievement. You can truly be what you want to be if you just get involved, get the ball rolling man!
What kind of acting roles are you looking to do in the future?
Just ones I haven’t done before really, Ive achieved a lot for my age, so if I can diversify now, hopefully I won’t become too typecast in the future. If I had to say one though, I’d say ones with authority, a policeman, doctor or a fireman that sort of character.
You have a music alter ego, Snakeyman, what is happening right now with the music ?
Lots man, My new track ‘Soldiers’ comes out on March 26th and features Ghetts on the remix. After that, next single out in June followed by an EP.
Whats next for Arnold Oceng?
3 films this year and more music. Right now I’m focused on the 3 M’s. Money, Music and Movies!!
PAYBACK SEASON- MARCH 9TH 2012- NATIONWIDE CINEMA RELEASE
trailer courtesy of Official Payback Season Trailer
We will always remember where we were, when we heard the tragic and sad news that Whitney Houston had passed away. The news sent shock waves through the entertainment industry, sparking outcries of grief. Whitney has been described by so many people over the years as the beautiful woman with the best voice in the world, Oprah Winfrey calling her simply, ‘The Voice’ Her vocal range and the heavenly tone to her voice, has made it immediately recognisable and loved by millions. Whitney Houston has had many highs and lows in her life, her career success is unprecedented, winning over 400 awards during her singing and acting career, platinum selling albums, sell out concerts worldwide, and a name that is a known in almost every country on the planet. Her relationship, and subsequent marriage to R&B artist Bobby Brown was globally documented. A high-profile wedding, public displays of affection toward each other, fights, court appearances, and regularly documented, battle against drug addiction. The pair had a daughter together, Bobbi-Kristina, in 1993, now 18 years old the young lady was evidently and not surprisingly devastated by the untimely death of her mother, she was even said to have been briefly taken into a rehab and relaxation center. Whitney Houston was found dead in her hotel suite, on February 11, it has been reported that she was found in her bath tub. The cause of death is yet to be released. Her death came on the eve of the Grammy Awards, and became the main foocus of the evening, as the shocking news spread. A funeral was held for whitney a few days later. Whitney’s now ex husband, arrived at the global superstars funeral, but when he demanded to be taken to his daughter, security alledgedly refused to take him near her, and he stormed out of the church before the ceremony even began, causing a media storm.
Whitey has now been laid to rest in Newark, New Jersey, next to her beloved father John Jr., gone but neer forgotten.
Born Whitney Elizabeth Houston, in Newark New Jersey , in 1963, her mother Cici, a gospel singer and her father John, an army serviceman, could neer have imagined what and who they had created. With a plethora of singers amongst her family including Dionne Warwick, her own mother, and her godmother, Darlene Love and life long family friend Aretha Franklin, it wasn’t a great surprise that Whitney was musical, but no one could ever have guessed the impact miss Houston would have on the world of entertainment.
Discovered by Clive Davis, in 1983, after a colleague of his at Arista Records saw her perform with her mother on stage, Davis was so impressed by Whitney’s vocals, and beautiful look, that he immediately offered her a worldwide record contract, and her debut album Whitney Houston, was a global hit.
the rest as they say is history, id be shocked if there was a person on this planet that didn’t know a Whitney song, her tracks are timeless and will stay on the radio waves forever.
The Grammy award winner and one time global super star, was found Dead in her hotel room.
As yet there has been no confirmation of cause of death. STORY TO BE CONTINUED……..
Carl Campbell went from small town boy to one of the most exciting up and coming names in the hair industry, we had a chat to Carl to find out about the man behind the hair.
Carl Campbell
Carl Campbell, is a young über talented hair stylist from the uk , a young man who is without a doubt leaving his mark on the industry right now. In an exclusive interview with Sataloma News, He tells us how, his journey to success didn’t seem to be written in the stars right from the beginning, but it was definitely meant to be. His outstanding talent, creativity and hard work, have got him where he is today, but getting into the industry, came from a chance meeting one weekend.
Carl Campbell_From A Boy To A Man
Carl Campbell
Carl Campbell grew up in a small town in Norfolk with his mum and older brother, after finishing school and two years of college studying psychology, law, English literature and business, he decided to spread his wings and move to London, The early days in the capital were far from glamorous, “I moved from Thetford to London in 2004, with no real main focus in life, I was living on a friends floor in a hostel for about 6 months”. he says. “I knew i had to try to look for a place of my own, I’d spent all my savings and it was time to get focused”. Carl spend a lot of time living in different hostels, trying to get himself on his feet, working in various places, including an Estate agents, “After 3 months I realised I hated my job, and knew that a corporate position, suited and booted wasnt for me at all. I found myself in between jobs once again, untill I began working in a United Colors of Benneton store” he remembers. “The way i broke into the hair industry was quite random, a stranger approached me in a club one night, and asked me if I’d be interested in doing any hair modelling for the salon he worked with”.
Deciding to go to the salon would turn out to be one of the best decisions, Carl would make in his life, no one could have predicted how sitting in that salon chair, would be the beginning of an amazing journey. Admiring the creativity of the stylists around him, whilst he sat in that chair having his hair styled, carl says he realised that this was something he wished he could do. ” I’d always had a general interest in hair, I always loved playing around, styling my mothers hair as a youngster” Carl’s confidence to speak to the manager of that salon, changed his life forever, “I explained to the manager of the salon that I loved what the team were doing, and asked if they had any assistants positions available”. Carl started working in the salon, and seeing his enthusiasm they gave him the opportunity to train as an apprentice, studying at Croydon college.
It seemed that Carl had found his calling in life. Then things went from good to great, “My big break in hairdressing came in 2007,”…. I began assisting a lady called Michelle Sultan, who worked in the salon, she started to take me out on a lot of her own private jobs, I assisted under her, working on photo shoots and music videos with celebrities. we were working with people like Alesha Dixon, & Booty Luv, and I helped Michelle out on the X-factor show” The amazing thing about Carl is that his success, is down to his hard work , determination, and his confidence to network himself with all the right people. Over that year,
Kimberly Wyatt
Carl introduced himself , and became familiar with several artist management teams and
Michelle Williams
other creatives in the industry, since then, Carl Campbell has worked with a huge Celebrity client list, that includes, Kelly Rowland, Keri Hilson, Sanaa Lathan, Preeya Kalidas, Kimberly Wyatt, Cleo Sol, Wynter Gordon, Jamelia, Sisco Gomez, Yasmin, Mz Bratt, and Six-D. Carl has worked on tv shows including, sky 1’s Got To Dance, Britain’s Next Top Model, and So You Think You Can Dance. His hair styles have been seen on red carpets and magazine covers, and just this week he was working with the beautiful new music artist Rita Ora.
And Finaly_We Asked……
What would you consider your is ultimate goal in your career?
“My ultimate goal in terms of my career I suppose is just to continue with making women feel and look gorgeous. I’d love to be internationally known, respected and to travel to world with my craft”
If you knew it was going to be your last day as a hair stylist, who’s hair would you want to be doing?
“Beyonce”
who is your biggest inspiration in life?
“My Mother”
Carl Campbell’s natural flair for styling hair stands out from the crowd, and is another perfect example of the amazing talent that can be found within the UK.
To see more of Carl’s portfolio you can visit his Facebook page CARL CAMPBELL HAIR.
Girl group Stooshe hit the music scene last year, bringing with them their quirky style, strong independant personalities and oozing with amazing vocal talent.
The girls have joined forces with Travie McCoy the front man of American group Gym Class Heroes, for their latest track, LOVE ME and here it is.
Former So Solid crew member MC Harvey and Girls Aloud singer Cheryl cole fight it out on twitter after Harvey told magazine that they had a secret relationship after her split from Footballer Ashley Cole.
The argument started yesterday afternoon, after Cheryl Cole heard about the story in NOW magazine, Cheryl tweeted “Was this “relationship” happening in your head @harveyofficial?! Are you smoking something?’ Then tweeted again saying “@harveyofficial I think I’ve met you once maybe twice at public events and With your wife!! #s**tjustgetsweirder”
within minutes Mc Harvey replied with a collection of tweets, ‘Do you actually want me to tweet some of the messages you emailed me @cherylcole pipe down and stop playing the saint in front of your fans’….. ‘I had your back @cherylcole until you sent that s**t. Disappointed in you if the public seen these emails you would end up with egg on your face……’And let’s get this straight @cherylcole I don’t need no hype of you! I’d rather go broke and work in Sainsbury’s than talk about your personal s**t.’
Harvey, claimed he had a secret relationship with Cheryl when she was an X Factor judge back in the winter of 2010, When eveyone was reporting that she was dating DerekHough. He tells the new issue of Now magazine: ‘There was a relationship and an attraction to each other’s aura…She’s a good girl. We’ve got a great respect for each other. ”We started confiding in each other. A lot of it was like: “We can’t trust anyone out there, so we’re just gonna trust each other.”
Cheryl’s band mate Nicola Roberts came to her friends defence , Nicola tweeted: “Emails..?? I think someone’s been having you on mate..” The singer then added: “#shedoesntdoemailsshedoesphonesex.”, she also asked if Harvey had ever heard of fake accounts ! Harvey concluded the Twitter argument by tweeting ‘Its funny how the hype has calmed down since I mentioned the emails. Where I come from we don’t snitch I’d rather die than sell my soul #simples’.
Regardless to who is telling the truth, the publicity won’t be doing Harvey any harm, as his new music is due to be released next month, he has a single due to be released in March, a collaboration with young new artist Lady Leshur.
London Police Commander Tony Eastaugh is to host lve webchat that you can be involved in, and the subject is the current stop and search policies.
On Wednesday, 1 February, (tomorrow) between 12.00 mid-day and 1 pm, Commander Tony Eastaugh will be hosting a webchat on the use of stop and search by the Metropolitan Police Service in London.
The met official website says that this presents a great opportunity for Londoners to ask him questions about how officers are using these powers and how the service is setting out to improve its approach announced by Metropolitan Police Commissioner Bernard Hogan-Howe.
To join the webchat during the above hours, people can simply click the link below, use the link to set up a reminder or alternatively they can pre-submit a question via twitter using the #stopandsearchchat hashtag
A PARSHIP study shows that women tend to react more emotionally than men, while men tend to withdraw from relationship strife. 41% of Parship members surveyed, admit that, when they argue with their partner, they can easily let their emotions run away with them. When there is strife in a relationship, strong emotional reactions are more frequent among women than men (45% vs 36%) according to the findings of a representative survey of c.1000 people between 18 and 65, conducted by PARSHIP (uk.parship.com), the leading online dating agency across Europe. Offended or overcome with rage.
differs widely: 40% rapidly take offence and stop speaking to their partner; around a third give vent to their anger and labour their point until their partner gives in, and around one in five withdraw from the argument, leaving the room or the house. Strikingly, men attempt significantly more frequently than women to withdraw from the argument and flee the situation, while women have a greater tendency to give vent to their anger.
